You can’t help but notice there’s a royal wedding coming soon in the UK. (Actually two royal weddings, but Zara Phillips and Mike Tindall seem to have slipped cunningly under the radar…) Britain’s very own Prince Charming, William Wales, is marrying his sweetheart Kate Middleton on April 29th, and the whole country has been granted a national holiday in celebration.
To commemorate this happy event, iFlorist and its US partner 1-800 Flowers would like to help every bride make her flowers look as pretty as a princess’s, with this guide to royal wedding flowers.
Commoners like us have a free rein when it comes to choosing our wedding flowers, but not Kate Middleton. Royal brides traditionally carry a bouquet of all-white flowers, according to protocol. If you’re thinking this means a cheapo bunch of spray carnations and gypsophila, think again! Queen Elizabeth II (then a princess) chose that very Hollywood of flowers, white orchids, for her marriage to Prince Phillip; while her daughter Anne selected a very traditional mixture of roses, lily of the valley, and white heather to represent Scotland.
Lily-of-the-valley (Convallaria) is the traditional flower of May 1st, very close to Kate and William’s wedding day, so that may well figure in the bouquet. It’s an elegant, dainty flower with a glorious perfume; it needs careful handling by an expert florist, but in the right hands will create the most exquisite bridal bouquet. Serena Stanhope (possibly the most stylish of all royal brides) certainly thought so when she carried a posy of lily-of-the-valley at her wedding to Viscount Linley. Her bouquet style was also plain – a simple tied bunch of flowers, sometimes referred to as a “Beidermeier”, just like many modern British brides carry up the aisle.
In contrast, Princess Diana reflected the opulence of the Eighties – and matched the size of her wedding gown – with a large cascading bouquet of wired stephanotis heads, orchids and gardenias, intertwined with ivy trails to represent faithfulness. This style requires immense technical skill on the part of the florist, to construct such a complex bouquet and to keep it looking perfect right through the day. With all that floral perfume it would have made a sweetly-scented, as well as stunning, arrangement; even if the “faithful” ivy didn’t quite do the trick. Some say gardenias represent a secret love, in the Language of Flowers, so maybe Diana knew more than she was letting on?
Whatever Kate Middleton chooses as her flowers, whether for church, reception, or dancing in the palace, you can be certain of one ingredient in her bouquet. Every royal bouquet since Queen Victoria in the 19th century, has carried a sprig of fluffy white Myrtle. After her wedding to Prince Albert, Queen Victoria planted a sprig of myrtle from her bouquet, in the garden at Osborne House, Isle of Wight, her island palace retreat. Long a symbol of love and marriage, Myrtle is also associated with the Greek goddess Aphrodite, and her Roman equivalent Venus – with those ladies behind you, your wedding can’t help but be a loving occasion! A myrtle sprig has been sent, fresh from Victoria’s own garden, to each royal bride ever since.
One other tradition has also been maintained by royal brides since 1923. When Queen Elizabeth’s mother Elizabeth Bowes-Lyon, married King George VI, she spontaneously laid her bouquet on the Tomb of the Unknown Warrior in Westminster Abbey. Perhaps she remembered her own brother, who was killed in World War 1. Kate’s bouquet, like that of all royal brides since, will also be laid there.